Thứ Bảy, 27 tháng 10, 2012

Behind the Red Door

When I heard that The Peking Duck blog's author, Richard Burger, had written a book, I knew it was something I'd want to check out. I found The Peking Duck in early 2006 after I'd just arrived in China for the first time. I've been reading it ever since. It was one of the first and most popular China blogs in the blogosphere and it has maintained its quality over the years. Burger has influenced my blog and my thoughts on China a great deal.

Burger, a trained professional journalist, chose a spicy topic for his book that is of interest to anyone: sex. Behind the Red Door: Sex in China, published last month, is a survey of Chinese culture, history, and attitudes towards sex from ancient times to the present day.



Burger's book is broken into the following parts:

Introduction
1. Sex in Imperial China
2. Dating and Marriage
3. The Sex Trade
4. The Family
5. Homosexuality
6. Education and Health
7. China's Shifting Sexual Landscape
Parting Thoughts

The book covers a lot in a little over 200 pages. The book discusses ancient China and a number of the dynasties before the 20th century, but most of the book is about contemporary China. Like really contemporary, as in the last ten years and particularly the last five.

Anyone who's read Burger's blog knows that he is a China news junkie of the highest magnitude. He weighs in on just about every noteworthy current event in China on his blog and has done so for a decade now. This deep and encyclopedic knowledge that he's developed over the years blogging turns out to be a great resource in writing a book. I consider myself a pretty hardcore China news junkie and Burger busts out all kinds of stories and events that I'd missed.

Two of my favorite parts of the book are about something right up Burger's alley: blogging. Burger uses two bloggers - China Bounder's (aka. David Marriot) Sex and Shanghai blog from 2006 and Muzimei's Left-over Love Letters blog from 2003 - as prisms through which to view sex in contemporary China.

China Bounder was the pseudonym used by a British man who slept with dozens of young Chinese women in Shanghai and then wrote about his sexscapades on his blog. After a few posts, the China Bounder blog went viral. Chinese people, in particular, were infuriated with this foreign devil who deflowered untold numbers of Chinese women with no regard for who he left in his wake.

Muzi Mei was the pseudonym used by a woman from Guangzhou who wrote of similar promiscuity (with Chinese men) on her blog. Readers of her romps initially measured in the hundreds and then thousands and then, before the blog was shut down, tens of millions. She was a pioneer in sexual liberation in China.

I was vaguely aware of both of these examples. They were a little before my time, though. I caught the tail end of the China Bounder fame but completely missed the controversy Muzi Mei created back in 2003.  Burger does a great job of telling the two bloggers' stories and how they are related China's ongoing sexual revolution.

Another area that Burger nails is prostitution. I really liked this following passage from pages 72 and 73:

Burger is right on with this passage. I found the same attitudes towards prostitution myself. There were pink light hair salon prostitutes all over the neighborhood where I lived. Prostitution was (and still is) rampant in Xi'an (just like it is in the rest of China). I like the way that Burger ties China's lax attitudes towards paid sex today to Chinese culture and history.

The final part of the book I want to comment on is the discussion of the male/female imbalance in the final Parting Thoughts chapter. I agree with Burger that China's skewed male/female ratio - somewhere around 118 boys born for every 100 girls - is one of the largest problems facing China and the world, for that matter. There are going to be tens of millions of men in China in the coming years who will simply be unable to marry. Burger has a nice analysis of what to expect with this looming disaster.

The only thing that I wish Burger had done differently with his book is include footnotes and references. Behind the Red Door is a non-fiction book with few personal anecdotes. A book like this should've had references in my opinion. It's not as if I would've checked many (or any, honestly) of the sources of information, but I feel that notes for the hundreds of references Burger made would've been helpful.

Behind the Red Door is a nuanced, thoughtful book about China. He's done a nice job with his first book. It's accessible and at the same time informative. Being about sex, it's also quite a fun read.

Thứ Tư, 24 tháng 10, 2012

Sunday : Family Day.

         
Sundays are always our family day. I'm going to blog something short here today. On the last Sunday, my family and I went to Midvalley and The Gardens for dinner and after dinner, we walked around. My mother and I had dinner at TGIF's while my dad and sister had their dinner at Sushi Zen.

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TGIF's.

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My outfit of the day.

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Converse.

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Cafe latte. Yes, I love latte(s). :D

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My dinner of the day. Rib eye steak with fries and cheesy mashed potatoes.

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We went for O'Briens for sandwiches before heading home.

So, that's all for today's short post. Stay tuned.




Thứ Sáu, 19 tháng 10, 2012

School Trip : Aquaria, KLCC.

         
On Friday (19/10/2012), it was the second day of our trip. We went to Aquaria, KLCC on that day. It's my 3rd or 4th time there, I can't remember exactly how many times I've been there before. I like this trip, it was way better than the first trip. Tham was my bodyguard of the day, lolol. Javier was with us too. I'll continue with the pictures.

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Listening to music while on the way to KLCC.

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Jam at Segambut.

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That was Mr Teoh in the bus.

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Everyone was hyper in the bus.

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Cloudy.

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This picture was taken in the bus.

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The KLCC twin towers. The weather was cloudy, as if it's going to rain anytime.

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The KL tower.

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We reached KLCC at about 11 AM. We waited outside Aquaria for a short while and soon we went in. Everyone was excited. Guess some of you are familiar with these pictures, because I once posted these pictures in my blog, it was one of this year's January's posts.

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Javier and Tham!

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That was random.

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Bokeh.

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Then, we entered the 90 meter transparent underwater tunnel, which is known as the Oceanarium. I've got to say, most cameras don't work perfectly under dark conditions. If you know what I mean.

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Later, Tham, Javier and I went outside of the Oceanarium and see how the divers feed the fish in the tank at 12 PM. It was interesting.

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Everyone was waiting for the divers' appearance.

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Look at this cute puffer fish.

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Here comes the diver with a bucket full with fish food.

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The diver is feeding the largest stingray in the tank.

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Lots of fishes appeared in the tank during the feeding time.

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The audience.

After that, we visited the little aquariums along the way and exited the Aquaria.

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We went for Starbucks then.

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My latte.

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Tham's chocolate cream chips.

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Javier's good at drawing latte art eh? Hahahaha.

Finally, we went back to school by bus. 

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Raindrops on the bus window.


So that's how we ended our trip. We're looking forward to the next and final trip! I shall stop right here, take care!


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